The Soundtrack of Falling in Love
What a strange thing divorce is.
It terminates the legal construct called "marriage,"
but it fails to sever the string of memories
you carry around, memories tucked neatly away
you carry around, memories tucked neatly away
in some mental suitcase until something unpacks them.
Yesterday, I was sitting in Jason's hair studio,
sipping tea and watching the "trim"
turn into a major shearing, when the oldies station
played this piece of Fleetwood Mac history.
And the memories of falling in love
and its particular soundtrack came flooding back.
There was a little bar across the street and down the block
from the law school.
It was a bit schizophenic:
a lunchtime hangout for law students and professors,
an after-shift blue collar bar,
and a post-class study place for night law students
after the doors were officially locked for the night.
There was a jukebox, playing through all the changes
in the cast of characters.
Some of the songs it played are forever embedded
in my memories of falling in love.
Lou Rawls "You'll Never Find Another Love."
Keith Carradine's "I'm Easy."
and I shouldn't leave out Billy Preston and Syreeta's
"With You I'm Born Again."
And I'm wondering. . .
will there ever be another someone
in my life
who makes lovin' fun?
Comments
I totally hear you.
26years ago for me.. I did meet a someone else and we have been married 23years.. the wound has healed but the scar is still there.. opening when I hear of another's suffering.. songs bring it back, just like for you..
[I have also been through the death of a spouse.. and death is easier to deal with than the pain of divorce - well it was for me anyway.. kinda final, ya know?]
will you meet another - emphatically yes!!! it is planned in the Heavens I am sure xo
It's a crazy time, but you will be okay, and you will find the someone who makes lovin' fun.
You.
And then the other one.
Hang in there.
How could love not come to you again? Stray strong, Meri. Surround yourself with warm tea and all that you love. It may take time, but as Joey said, when you're ready it will happen.
Falling in love seriously for the second time is even better than the first time. all those silly hang-ups you had first time round will disappear; you are an adult now and nothing matters but the new love.
Holding hands at an advanced age is not at all embarrassing and kissing in public, while walking down a busy street, never felt better.
Don't give up hope; you need to mourn your loss, the memories will be filtered through a haze of regret at first, then acceptance; in the end they will be memories without hurt or pain.
Life is sweet.
I am thinking of you and sending you thoughts of a prince charming and of happines on all the things you do very well and enjoy
bless your sweet honest precious heart!
embraceable you.
i want this for you.
the s l o w fall into complete surrender.
the deep hold of fascination when every moment stretches wide the scope of being.
you are so beautiful...and i want that some one who is living with the same longing to stumble into your ecstasy.